All of us, atleast most of us have faced unjust hostility, enmity or pain from others. Is there a single soul who will say that he has never faced any such situations?
When we face it once or twice its easy to forget. But when we face it time after time slowly our heart hardens. Say for example an extremely beautiful girl faces more than her share of jealousy, hatred and enmity. Does she deserves it? No. Does she likes it? No again.
But if she walks into their provocation and starts to hit them back it will slowly corrupt her nature and people will say that her beauty is only outward.
The best solution is to make herself strong, be so strong that these things don’t make any impact on them. She should be wary of enemies, but should never let them control her life, feelings or emotions. She should be mistress of her own life and leave the decision of punishment on God.
First it wont corrupt her nature, in place of that it will make her a better person. Second, she will control her own life.
Believe me, God’s mill may grind slow, but it grinds sure, and grinds really fine. Its my personal experience, and I have seen it happening too many times.
Never ever let anger, hatred, vengenance or such cruel feelings invade your heart. They are acids, which will slowly erode your heart.
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trisha,
ReplyDeleteHave you copy pasted these words from my heart?
Your thoughts are exactly the same as are mine in this matter.
hatered, vangenance are certainly acids for our heart.
Thanks, Shukria and Dhanewar (if my spellings are correct) for this post.
dearest bro,
ReplyDeletei think our mindsets match. its a very intelligent mindset, by hating an offender we doubly hurt ourselves.. though its really hard sometimes but worth trying.
warmest affections,