Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Friendship musings

Among all human relationships, the most addictive is most probably friendship. Its most unselfish and fulfilling relationship. Those who have found true friends can vow for it. a normal human being tries to find friend in every one/thing.. human beings, nature, God..

A good friend is the best motivator, who will try to bring out the best in you, will never try to steal the wind beneath your wing, and will never be jealous of you.

Such friends are quite hard to find, in long lessons of life we will see that our friends are the ones who take a pirouette all of a sudden. Suddenly turn into our foe, deadliest foe because they know all about us. There can be 101 reasons, starting from ego to jealousy.

But we cant do without them either.. there are a few things one can practice when among friends, till the day you can blindly trust them, don’t share every thing, specially some dangerous secret.

When you have become extremely intimate, never mistreat your friend. Always give him the due respect he deserves. Remember the golden proverb.. being someone’s friend doesnot gives you right to be abusive towards him, it should be other way round, enemies are enough to be abusive and critical, friends should avoid it.

Friendship is must for a healthy living, but we should always be choosy about friends, because our friends tell a lot about us, and our nature is extremely dependent on the friends we keep and mingle with.

After finding a group of the very best friends that can exist (after meeting some true nightmares for years) I will recommend every one to go for FRIENDSHIP WITH CAUTION and LOVE in your heart.

To love your friend with all your heart but keeping in mind, to never abuse him or hand over your death sentence to him unless he is THAT friend.

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