Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Expressing love

You know which songs I hate most? The old Hindi movie songs which advocated that true love does not uses tongue or actions to express itself.

 

Come on! How will the other one understand it then? By magic or by thought-reading?

 

I personally believe and will always believe that if you love someone you should always let that person know clearly that you love that person and always will. Of course if you don’t want to lose him. Or else you may hide that feeling and see him walk away forever, thinking he does not means any thing to you.

 

I personally believe that unless the chances of meeting are impossible, any sincere person should express his feelings, and any sincere woman should give clear hints of her feelings to her lover and in case of others she too will act just like a man, express herself. In case of love I can certainly understand feminine shyness.

 

By mentioning the term “chances of meeting are impossible” I wanted to say some relationships just don’t or can’t work out, so its better to hide them, instead of expressing them and acting like a fool.

 

When I was a young girl I used to commute in school bus, there was a senior girl in the bus who had a huge crush on Ravi Shastri; she even used to dream of her. That innocent girl used to share her dreams with everyone who used to laugh at her behind her back. Well, she was a student of school so in her case it was obviously childish but we adults also sometimes fall in love with stars, in those cases I would suggest to not express them. Otherwise, one should express one’s feelings as long as its respectable and respected.

8 comments:

  1. Hmmmm, main khud se poochta hun ke main yahan kia likhon?
    Hmmmm.....Hmmmm......
    Best Wishes!

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  2. :) aur aapka matlab? kahin aap bhee kisi film star se pyar karte hain kya?

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  3. Nahin Nahin didi, aisa kuch bhi nahi!

    Loug filmstars se piyar unke un dialogues ki wajah se bi kerte hain jinko kisi aur ne likha hota hai.

    Main tau thinkers aur truth seekers se piyar krta hun.

    Best Wishes!

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  4. didi, apki Urdu (language) ki tau baat hi kuch aur hai.

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  5. bilkul sahi kaha, maine suna hai ke haqeeqat me unme koi bhee charisma nahi hai, jo bhee chamak hai wo rupahle parde ka jadoo hai.

    agar mujhe waqai me urdu aatee to mujhse jyada khush aur koi nahi hota, bas thoda bahut jhad leti hoon kabhi kabhi :)

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  7. didi, I was not expecting such urdu from you. You are really good at coveying your message in Urdu.

    Best Wishes!

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  8. dearest brother,
    only superficially, but i cant understand most of urdu shayarie though i love them too much.

    you should have heard me speaking hindi :) even people whose mother tongue is hindi ask me if i belong to northern states :)

    i love language and was a book worm once. so ..

    thanks for the sweet compliment.
    with warmest affections,
    didi

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